So, baby number two (or three, or four) is on the way, and you’re faced with a burning question: Should you have a baby shower? Let’s break it down and help you navigate these celebratory waters.
First off, let’s debunk the myth. Traditional etiquette suggested baby showers were primarily for first-timers. The thinking was that parents would have all the essentials by the time baby number two or three came around. But hey, it's the 21st century, and traditions are evolving!
Hello, Baby Sprinkle! For those who feel a full-blown shower for subsequent children might be excessive, meet the “baby sprinkle.” It’s a toned-down version of a shower. The focus is more on celebrating the new baby rather than the registry. Think fewer presents and more love, joy, and shared anticipation.
Every Baby is Worth Celebrating: Every child is unique and deserves celebration. Whether it's your first or fifth, the arrival of a new life is always a reason to gather your loved ones.
But, Do You Need the Gifts? Ask yourself: Is it about the presents or the celebration? If you already have everything from your previous baby, perhaps make it clear on the invite. Phrases like “No gifts necessary, just your company!” can make guests feel at ease.
Families Grow, Needs Change: Perhaps your firstborn is a summer baby, and this one's due in winter. Or you’ve moved and now have more space. Circumstances change, and it's okay to have new needs and wants for your subsequent babies.
It Can Be a Way to Include Siblings: A baby shower or sprinkle can be an excellent opportunity for older siblings to understand and get excited about their new brother or sister. They can be involved in the preparations and perhaps even get a “Big Brother/Sister” gift.
Gauge Your Friends and Family: Are they enthusiastic about another shower? Do they keep asking about your registry? Or do you sense hesitation? It's always a good idea to get a feel from your loved ones.
If a traditional shower isn’t your thing this time around, think about alternatives:
- Meet and Greet: Once the baby arrives, have an open house-style gathering.
- Book Shower: Ask guests to bring their favorite children’s book to build up a diverse library for your kiddo.
- Frozen Food Party: Instead of gifts, guests can bring frozen meals to help you in the postpartum period.
There's no right or wrong answer, only what feels best for you and your family. If you want to celebrate, go for it! If you'd rather keep things low-key, that's perfectly fine too.
Remember, it's all about welcoming your newest addition with love, joy, and open arms. 🍼🎉
